*Banner images were made by my 11 year old niece, Nakea, and 8 & 12 year old nephews, Kala and Noa, in proactive opposition to the “45” supporters on their street.
Published August 2, 2020
Updated April 12, 2021
A Growing Collection of Resources in Support of Black Lives
In an effort to keep my research and learnings in one, easy-to-access, clickable place, I’ve created this page. Bear with me as I continue adding to it. If you have a resource or nugget of wisdom, I welcome it and would love to add it below (with attribution of course) as a public service.
Black-owned businesses I love
Ayanna Denise Skin (I love The Corrector, formerly Butter Rum)
Spellbound Syrups (I love Monique’s shrubs, obsessed really. Her website is in the works but her IG is 🔥)
Jacquette Timmons (I love Jacquette, she’s my actual factual personal “money coach”)
The Six Figure Chick (I love Cici’s digital products and workshops, she’s a genius…rest in peace 👸🏾🙏🏽)
Taina Brown (I love Taina and the work she does to support Black LGBTQIA folx)
LYL Body Care (I love the Self-Care Kit)
Adjourn Teahouse (OBSESSED)
The Sable Collective (I love the candles, stationary and wellness stuff, basically all the things!)
Mess in a Bottle (I love the cheeky messages in service of social change)
Little Like Kids (I love the kids puzzles and memory games)
Warren + Forest (I love their GORGEOUS floral arrangements, ATL)
FlowerLoop (I love her flowers, ABQ)
Books I love, I’m reading or are in my pile
*Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown (Changed my life)
*Emergent Strategy by adrienne maree brown (I’m obsessed with amb)
*Kindred by Octavia Butler
The Uses of the Erotic by Audre Lorde
*How We Show Up by Mia Birdsong (Also changed my life)
*Heart Talk by Cleo Wade (a constant go-to)
*This Will Be My Undoing by Morgan Jerkins
*Notes from a Young Black Chef by Kwame Onwuachi
*Zami: A New Spelling of My Name by Audre Lorde
*all about love by bell hooks
*Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad
*So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo
A Kids Book About Racism (for kids, and grown ups)
Here For It by R. Eric Thomas
Wandering in Strange Lands by Morgan Jerkins
where to buy books
I get mine from Black-owned and Native-owned bookshops (ask them order for you).
I also order from *Bookshop.org and Libro.fm (audiobooks).
*I’m an affiliate and receive 10% from books purchased through my links.
get off amazon
If you haven’t already, get off Amazon, Book Depository and Audible. Whole Foods too while you’re at it.
black Wisdom that brings me joy & growth on the daily
These links predominantly go to Instagram profiles where website and stores are can also be found. Support these people by ordering their books and art, and by becoming supporters through Patreon and/or PayPal.
@bdeeplyrooted (garden wisdom in her stories)
Iana Sundari Leufray (her blog! plus all things good, light, deep, hard, soft and wise. also, have you listened to our convo?)
Where i’m putting other energy and resources
The Bail Project is on a mission to combat mass incarceration and reshape the pretrial system in the United States. 100% of online donations are used to bring people home and will be recycled for someone else when their case closes.
National Bail Out bails Black mothers and caregivers from jail, with a focus on help during COVID since there is no way to social distance behind bars.
Bail funds across the country helping peaceful protestors who have been arrested (HINT: smaller towns and cities tend to have smaller funds so your money has more impact, in my opinion).
Healing for Black Women Fund organized by Alexandria Niecy Taylor
Catalyst, Conversation Roadblocks (October 10, 2019) and the pdf version
Black Lives Matter
I’m asking myself all the time how I can show up for Black folx better, more meaningfully, more impactfully, and more sustainably.
Black people are being murdered in broad daylight across this country what seems to be every single day.
Murdered while sleeping.
Murdered while exercising.
Murdered while in their homes.
Murdered while shopping.
Murdered for being Black.
It’s a motherfucking crisis that has come to a head at a time we are tripping through a once in several lifetimes global pandemic. COVID-19 has made racial injustice in this country glaringly clear to anyone who wasn’t paying attention before.
I have beloved Black adults and kiddos in my life whom I want to do more for, be stronger for. I want to be not just a shield, but a tool that dismantles the guns being pointed at them. I want to do more than I ever have before.
I don’t really have answers, only outrage, deep sadness and lots of fucking questions.
What can I do to support Black people in meaningful ways?
How have I been complicit to racism?
How have I been racist?
What the fucking fuck?
Again, no answers.
But I’m working to learn. I’m listening. I’m reading. I’m trying to do more, do better, and take action in ways that are true to me and sustainable. This isn’t just a blip on the timeline. A seismic shift is happening, and even still this is going to be lifetime work.
There have been moments in the last year when I’ve been called in for actions I’ve taken that I felt were thoughtful and supportive of Black folx and other oppressed people. This stuff is nuanced. What I might feel in my heart is not necessarily how it’s going to land for someone else.
It takes emotional effort to navigate a call in. I’m working on not taking offense and instead, listening, researching and learning — over and over again.
My invitation to you is to join me in the practice of letting go of what you have previously thought was the way to support people of different races, oppressed peoples, friends and communities of color.
There’s certainly room for holding, honoring and sharing what has worked. For sure.
But/and, I believe this is the time to set aside what we think we know, open our lens as wide as we can to take in what we don’t know, process the information, feel the learning, rinse and repeat.
Love, Annie